The ceremony began with the ritual of the candles. The baby candle, with a photo of Tahlia on it was lit to begin the ceremony. The grandparents especially were welcomed as important mentors in the life of the child, as well as Tahlia,s sister, cousins and other relatives. Stevie, the mother did a reading called ‘Angel’s and the grandfather also did a reading to say how proud he felt. The origin of Tahlia’s name was explained as well as connections to other family members.
In the actual Naming part of the ceremony, the guardians were asked if they were happy to accept the responsibility of guardianship. To acknowledge their commitment a special candle for each guardian was lit from the baby’s candle and I passed this candle to each guardian as they pronounced ‘I do’. The parents, grandparents and guardians all held hands and repeated after me a short blessing and ’We all agree to name you’ Tahlia……..’
Then the rose petal ritual. Roses are a symbol of love and the petals represent a baby version. All the guests came forward and took a few petals from a basket, kissed them and made a silent wish for the well being of Tahlia and placed the petals into a bowl of water. Water is a symbol for life. To conclude the ceremony certificates were signed and presented to the parents and guardians of Tahlia.
There are many variations on the Baby Naming Ceremony, all rituals can be added to, changed according to the venue or wishes of the parents. Certificates are always personalized to requirements as well as candles, colours and music.
Weddings, Commitment Ceremonies, Renewal of Vows
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Creating the Ceremony
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